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High-Schooler Told to Cover Up for Exposing Her Shoulder
Yahoo!News ^ | January 29, 2015 | Rachel Bertsche

Posted on 01/29/2015 2:54:42 PM PST by Kaslin

When 16-year-old Gabi Finlayson went to Paris with her mother and brother in December, she only bought one thing: a light pink dress with lace overlay that fell just below the knee. She planned to wear it to an upcoming high school dance. “I loved it,” she tells Yahoo Parenting. “It reminded me of Audrey Hepburn. It seemed like a classic dress I could wear forever.”

So on Saturday night, the Utah high school junior couldn’t wait to show up at the dance. “Being a 16-year-old girl, it’s hard to find something that makes you feel pretty and when you do, you want to share it,” she says. But instead of feeling like the belle of the ball, Finlayson ended up feeling shamed and embarrassed, she says, when she was asked to cover up her bare shoulders.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; US: Utah
KEYWORDS: dresscode; lds; mormon; schooldresscode
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To: Kaslin

Gorgeous young woman and gorgeous, modest dress. The FOX news gals wear sleeveless dress all the time. I’m surprised some of our Freepers haven’t thought about posting a selection of some of the Walmart beauties as a comparison.


21 posted on 01/29/2015 3:09:28 PM PST by ryderann
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To: old curmudgeon

no particular reason ... I just don’t


22 posted on 01/29/2015 3:09:30 PM PST by knarf (I say things that are true ... I have no proof ... but, they're true)
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To: Kaslin

that is a lovely dress on a lovely girl - time to take another look at the school dress codes.


23 posted on 01/29/2015 3:10:02 PM PST by elpadre (AfganistaMr Obama said the goal was to "disrupt, dismantle and defeat al-hereQaeda" and its allies.)
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To: Responsibility2nd

That picture ruined my day. Thanks a lot......


24 posted on 01/29/2015 3:10:22 PM PST by Fungi (There are two options--going off a cliff with Rats or going off a cliff with Rhinos. Pick one.)
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To: Kaslin

Well, it’s Utah. “Community standards” do vary.


25 posted on 01/29/2015 3:12:49 PM PST by Boogieman
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To: madprof98

I have a daughter that was told to change what she was wearing in the past based on an arbitrary dress code. What she was wearing was completely acceptable and conservative, not the least be revealing. I was told to come to her school and bring different clothes or she could return to her classes. She didn’t moan. I didn’t moan. I verbally ripped the head of the principal and the teacher who sent my daughter to the principal. I also threatened them with a law suit. If you don’t stand up to petty fascism it goes into complete control over your life. Note that I wrote ‘fascism’. There are people on the right and left that are willing to control our lives and deprive us of our freedom and liberty. I am sorry that you are so weak.


26 posted on 01/29/2015 3:13:44 PM PST by ConservativeInPA (#JuSuisCharlesMartel)
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To: knarf
Some lady high school dance monitor told her.

This high school is in American Fork UT, halfway between Provo/Orem and Sandy and that's all you need to know about the kind of women volunteers they'd attract to be high school dance monitors.

They're nice people typically, but despite the fact they have cell phones and SUVs they're stuck in the 1890s. I'm sure some other students were sent home for not wearing socks with sandals or sent to detention for muttering 'phooey!' to themselves out on the athletic field after failing the high jump. Saying 'Gee Whiz!' is the same as cursing there, because everyone knows what you REALLY meant to say.

People from the next state over to my East are something else.

27 posted on 01/29/2015 3:14:02 PM PST by The KG9 Kid
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To: old curmudgeon
"In my ignorance, I have clicked yahoo in the past.
Why not?"

Are you Serious?!?

28 posted on 01/29/2015 3:14:44 PM PST by Boogieman
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To: Kaslin

The young lady’s dress is classic, lovely on her and modest.

In Utah? I’m guessing some LDS elder thought she should have worn her “Mormon garment” underneath, which would have totally destroyed the lines of the dress.


29 posted on 01/29/2015 3:14:59 PM PST by Rushmore Rocks (,)
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To: Kaslin
The Lone Peak High School dress code states, among other guidelines, that “girls’ dresses and tops must have a 2” minimum strap on each shoulder. Shawls, boleros and other shrugs are acceptable if worn over the dress at all times. Cleavage covered.”

It looks to me like she complied with the dress code. I see nothing wrong with her attire. The dress is nice and appropriate for her age.

30 posted on 01/29/2015 3:15:43 PM PST by Huntress ("Politicians exploit economic illiteracy." --Walter Williams)
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To: old curmudgeon
I suspect some class envy might be involved.

Perhaps it wasn't the dress so much as the fact that she bought it in Paris?

31 posted on 01/29/2015 3:18:01 PM PST by Drew68
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To: Kaslin

How silly! I used to see girls come to school in STRAPLESS dresses back in 1961!


32 posted on 01/29/2015 3:18:46 PM PST by Ruy Dias de Bivar
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To: Huntress
It looks to me like she complied with the dress code.

I dunno. That strap might be 1 3/4".

33 posted on 01/29/2015 3:19:41 PM PST by Drew68
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To: old curmudgeon

It’s fun to read the comments at Yahoo.

They actually allow non-lefty comments to remain and those usually far outnumber the loonies


34 posted on 01/29/2015 3:20:02 PM PST by digger48
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To: Kaslin

Can’t see her tramp stamp or navel ring. Good to go.


35 posted on 01/29/2015 3:21:03 PM PST by gundog (Help us, Nairobi-Wan Kenobi...you're our only hope.)
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To: madprof98
Well, this girl had to wear her coat the whole time as she did not have a sweater (it is January). The dress code calls for 2" straps which evidently this dress had, so she followed the dress code.

Hovering mama is justifiably angry that her daughter was humiliated by school personnel at the door. I think the dress is modest and very fitting for a 16 year old at a school dance.

36 posted on 01/29/2015 3:22:06 PM PST by Abby4116
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To: EEGator; All
Whoever told her to cover up is
a bitch...probably fat too.
very fat, very ugly and an feminNAZI..
Very ugly, very fat and femiNAZI, Is a terrible way to live, Please Give to..

37 posted on 01/29/2015 3:22:23 PM PST by skinkinthegrass ("Bathhouse" E'Bola/0'Boehmer/0'McConnell; all STINK and their best friends are flies. d8^)
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To: Fungi
I'm sorry.

Besides being a pic of Mooch, its too dang BIG!

 

 

If a pic of the Wookie MUST be posted, then at least micro-size it.

38 posted on 01/29/2015 3:22:38 PM PST by Responsibility2nd (See Ya On The Road; Al Baby's Mom!)
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To: momtothree

It wouldn’t be if it weren’t for busy bodies and jealous wall flowers that can’t stand for some young lady to look beautiful and in a sane world very appropriate.


39 posted on 01/29/2015 3:23:04 PM PST by Happy1947
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To: old curmudgeon
"... The furniture is from another generation and looks like high quality, as do the wall units... I suspect some class envy might be involved."

Nah, all their homes are decorated just like that. Like I said above, they're culturally stuck in the 1890s. I'll lay a dollar to a donut that almost every stick of furniture in that home is from RC Willey Home Furnishings. Believe me.

Go see what the Utah-based furniture store 'RC Willey' sells. Their slogan is "No matter what your style, we have a look for you!" --- Er, as long as your style is LDS that is.

40 posted on 01/29/2015 3:23:36 PM PST by The KG9 Kid
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