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When guys find out I’m a virgin [author is a 26 year old female Christian]
Salon ^
| October 5, 2014
| Ellen Burkhardt
Posted on 10/13/2014 3:06:55 PM PDT by grundle
There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. First date? Too much, too soon. Wait until the third date and you risk being considered a tease. Second date? Perhaps, but at this point you’re both still fretting over whether or not to eat another piece of bread; delving into sexual histories (or lack thereof) seems a bit extreme. So: There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.
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TOPICS: Editorial; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abstinence; cat; cats; chastity; culturewar; darwin; ellenburkhardt; frigidity; hookupculture; hyperliteralism; kittycats; moralabsolutes; morekittycats; puritanism; salon; salonstockdeathwatch; virgin; virginity
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:06:55 PM PDT
by
grundle
To: grundle
EWWWWWWWWWWW....while her chastity is commendable, her choice of magazines is disgusting.
2
posted on
10/13/2014 3:08:27 PM PDT
by
Drango
(A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
To: grundle
Lose the nosering and she’s not guilty.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:09:15 PM PDT
by
OneLoyalAmerican
(In God I trust, all others provide citations.)
To: grundle
Why bring it up? Why mention it?
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:09:30 PM PDT
by
GeronL
(Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
To: Drango
You have to go where the unsaved are, if you want to save them. They certainly aren’t going to sit in the church pews.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:09:37 PM PDT
by
Jonty30
(What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
To: grundle
How about your wedding night? And he better be one too.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:09:51 PM PDT
by
yldstrk
(My heroes have always been cowboys)
To: grundle
Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.she is definitely hanging out in the wrong crowd
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:10:25 PM PDT
by
GeronL
(Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
To: fieldmarshaldj; Lazamataz
Lose the nosering and she’s not guilty.Where's Laz?
9
posted on
10/13/2014 3:10:31 PM PDT
by
dware
(3 prohibited topics in mixed company: politics, religion and operating systems...)
To: Jonty30
10
posted on
10/13/2014 3:11:05 PM PDT
by
Drango
(A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
To: fieldmarshaldj
Nosering is ok, but she has a big nose.
11
posted on
10/13/2014 3:12:55 PM PDT
by
Gamecock
(USA, Ret.)
To: grundle
Good article, thanks for posting it. And I guess thanks to Salon for publishing it.
12
posted on
10/13/2014 3:13:39 PM PDT
by
jocon307
To: grundle
“Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.”
Why would you date someone who has a problem with that? I wouldn’t even accept a date from someone I wasn’t sure was a Christian.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:13:40 PM PDT
by
Politicalkiddo
(Power always thinks.. that it is doing God's service when it is violating all his laws. -John Adams)
To: grundle
Too many men want time with a whore, but want to marry a virgin.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:14:28 PM PDT
by
umgud
(I couldn't understand why the ball kept getting bigger......... then it hit me.)
To: Drango
Writing for Salon..... she’s a presstitute aka liar.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:14:29 PM PDT
by
Squantos
( Be polite, be professional, but have a plan to kill everyone you meet ...)
To: grundle
I'd hit it.
....oh, wait.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:15:06 PM PDT
by
Lazamataz
(First we beat the Soviet Union. Then we became them. We have no 'news media', only a Soviet Pravda.)
To: Lazamataz
nothing says devout Christian like a nose ring
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:16:55 PM PDT
by
GeronL
(Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
To: GeronL
Because some guys are just with you for sex. When they find out it is not in the cards they can get pushy or nasty. Sometimes both.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:17:01 PM PDT
by
Harmless Teddy Bear
(Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
To: grundle
IMHO if you’re not going to have sex before marriage, then dating is just interviewing for a spouse, and there’s no point in dating until your ready (or almost ready) to get married.
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:17:46 PM PDT
by
Hugin
("Do yourself a favor--first thing, get a firearm!",)
To: Harmless Teddy Bear
Why is she with them in the first place?
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posted on
10/13/2014 3:18:12 PM PDT
by
GeronL
(Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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