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Spanking Is Great for Sex -Which is why it’s grotesque for parenting.
Slate ^ | 9/18/14 | Jillian Keenan

Posted on 09/18/2014 5:36:31 PM PDT by Faith Presses On

"Spanking Is Great for Sex"

Once again, I’ve been accused of pedophilia. Well, to be technical, my sexual identity was called “somewhat pedophilic.” But we’re talking about one of the most loathsome things a person can be accused of, so why split hairs? I’m also regularly told that my sexuality is “repulsive,” “damaged,” and “abusive.” But all of those feel like Valentines compared with “pedophilic.”

People say this to me so often because I’m kinky, and I’ve written about it. I have a spanking fetish...I’ve had submissive fantasies for as long as I can remember, and it’s part of my identity. I consider my kink to be my sexual orientation.

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So I have a question: If it’s “somewhat pedophilic” when my adult husband consensually spanks me in a simulated “punishment,” what should we call it when parents do the same physical thing to actual children in an actual punishment?

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Spanking is a sex act. It has been for a very long time—probably even longer than it’s been a parenting choice...

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To: Viennacon
“Spanking is a sex act”

This is so bizarre, I am lost for words.

Now you know why they want to teach children sadomasochism and sexual domination, so they can normalize their sick perversion. Same method the queers used.

21 posted on 09/18/2014 6:20:56 PM PDT by Mastador1 (I'll take a bad dog over a good politician any day!)
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To: Faith Presses On

“People say this to me so often because I’m kinky, and I’ve written about it. I have a spanking fetish...I’ve had submissive fantasies for as long as I can remember, and it’s part of my identity. I consider my kink to be my sexual orientation.”

I think exhibitionism and narcissism are also quite heavy in the mixture. Can’t stop talking about it in public, can’t stop talking about herself.


22 posted on 09/18/2014 6:21:19 PM PDT by cdcdawg
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To: DouglasKC

I think that would be...

Beat me up, Scotty.


23 posted on 09/18/2014 6:29:11 PM PDT by antidisestablishment (Islam delenda est)
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To: Mastador1

I am aware certain people engage in this. Its not amazingly unusual. I am just aghast that this woman thinks that spanking is primarily ‘a sex act’. This is like criticizing whipping in Saudi Arabia because whipping is a ‘sex act’.

No, these are methods of inflicting pain. Whether some people view them sexually is irrelevant. Some people are sexually aroused by amputation. Are the ISIS execution videos porn???


24 posted on 09/18/2014 6:29:52 PM PDT by Viennacon (Obola is a muslim terrorist)
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To: Mastador1

I am aware certain people engage in this. Its not amazingly unusual. I am just aghast that this woman thinks that spanking is primarily ‘a sex act’. This is like criticizing whipping in Saudi Arabia because whipping is a ‘sex act’.

No, these are methods of inflicting pain. Whether some people view them sexually is irrelevant. Some people are sexually aroused by amputation. Are the ISIS execution videos porn???


25 posted on 09/18/2014 6:29:52 PM PDT by Viennacon (Obola is a muslim terrorist)
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To: BushCountry

Re pic of the author: Not guilty, but in need of a spanking.


26 posted on 09/18/2014 6:38:25 PM PDT by Pearls Before Swine
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To: Faith Presses On
Spanking is a sex act. It has been for a very long time—probably even longer than it’s been a parenting choice...

Yes, that's right, Jillian, and oral sex came before eating food too.
Can I interest you in a ball of yarn to play with or some brightly colored kraft paper?

27 posted on 09/18/2014 6:49:48 PM PDT by TigersEye ("No man left behind" means something different to 0bama.)
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To: Viennacon
“Spanking is a sex act” This is so bizarre, I am lost for words.

she should have said, "spanking CAN BE a sex act..." :)

28 posted on 09/18/2014 6:50:46 PM PDT by latina4dubya (when i have money i buy books... if i have anything left, i buy 6-inch heels and a bottle of wine...)
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To: Viennacon

Two times in a row you respond to the wrong person, aim your swing right, I ain’t the target.


29 posted on 09/18/2014 6:51:12 PM PDT by Mastador1 (I'll take a bad dog over a good politician any day!)
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To: Faith Presses On

Bizarro World sex is very bizarre.. Who knew?...


30 posted on 09/18/2014 6:52:41 PM PDT by hosepipe (" This propaganda has been edited (specifically) to include some fully orbed hyperbole.. ")
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To: Faith Presses On; Unam Sanctam; x_plus_one; Patton@Bastogne; Oldeconomybuyer; RightField; ...
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31 posted on 09/18/2014 6:53:16 PM PDT by narses ( For the Son of man shall come ... and then will he render to every man according to his works.)
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To: Mastador1

It wasn’t a swing. haha. Just going through the logical motions of this leftist. Its pretty crazy


32 posted on 09/18/2014 6:53:51 PM PDT by Viennacon (Obola is a muslim terrorist)
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To: Viennacon

Remember some people like to say radical things just to get a rise out of people, then again maybe they’re one of the ones that like to be beat, low self esteem and all.


33 posted on 09/18/2014 6:57:27 PM PDT by Mastador1 (I'll take a bad dog over a good politician any day!)
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To: Faith Presses On

Some girls love it, others not so much. It’s subjective to the individual. Some people need that extra “stimulus”. ‘ta bom! saddle up! y’all...


34 posted on 09/18/2014 7:02:48 PM PDT by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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To: Rides_A_Red_Horse

LOL


35 posted on 09/18/2014 7:09:43 PM PDT by kitkat (STORM HEAVEN WITH PRAYERS FOR OUR COUNTRY)
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To: Faith Presses On
Just another non-shocking person who thinks she's shocking us - but who is just acting boring and vulgar.
36 posted on 09/18/2014 7:12:24 PM PDT by pieceofthepuzzle
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To: freebilly

Spank the "virgins"

37 posted on 09/18/2014 7:15:46 PM PDT by lightman (O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance, giving to Thy Church vict'ry o'er Her enemies.)
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To: Olog-hai
The picture he posted may not be the author, but she looks like she's been a very-very naughty girl and needs to be punished.
38 posted on 09/18/2014 7:26:50 PM PDT by OSHA (One despises and wants to destroy the United States, the other is a dead terrorist.)
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To: Faith Presses On

Of course an alternate view, more broadly held, might be stated: Spanking Is Great for Parenting (Which is why it’s grotesque for sex.)


39 posted on 09/18/2014 7:29:41 PM PDT by The_Reader_David (And when they behead your own people in the wars which are to come, then you will know...)
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To: Faith Presses On
Young or old, Big or small. There is no other body part so well padded naturally than the bottom. It is padded so well that it can support the entire weight of the person for hours without numbing or any other problems. The fact that it's connected to other areas of the body close by isn't the point. It registers pain in the brain without risking any real physical damage to spank one on the bottom.

Before all this PC spanking concern went mainstream I spanked a niece of mine. I risk very little in telling this tale because I'm the only remaining living person who was there to witness what happened.

She was wonderfully smart and cute, and somewhat horribly spoiled rotten. She'd probably admit to all that now, if she was still alive.

It was a vacation on the lake and she'd been left behind probably because she was so difficult to handle. My Dad and I and this sweet little girl were swimming, drinking beer, fishing, casually conversing, jumping off the dock, enjoying a nice summer day, and deviously finding opportunities to grab one's beer can and throw it into the lake. Not written in any specific order you probably couldn't sort out without some imagination.

My Dad, is the one person who ever administered just once mind you, a true spanking on me, and he was actually so deliberate and honest about it, well I knew at the time it was absolute textbook. He warned me several times. He drew a line that I should dare never cross, and he calmly explained why I was going to be spanked because I had disobeyed when I ignored his warnings. Then he told me he was doing this because he loved me before releasing a damn good bare hand to trousered bottom spanking that I never forgot.

Back at the lake this little girl was my niece by marriage. My wife's sister's child. She was warned several times that throwing full beer cans into the lake just wasn't a good game for her to play and that continuing this game would have consequences that would involve a spanking. I don't remember now exactly but I don't think I smacked her any more than two or three times before she was balling with freight train force. It ended her little game. She found some other way to get attention and annoy us. And if the same thing happened to me today I'd probably think twice in our PC culture.

The little girl in this story died tragically several years ago in an auto accident. Several years later my Dad passed away as well. Both of them and all of you make life just grand. Memories are meant to be shared.

40 posted on 09/18/2014 7:33:59 PM PDT by WhoisAlanGreenspan?
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