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Lapsed Catholics weigh in on why they left Church
OSV ^ | October 23, 2014 | Mark Gray

Posted on 10/27/2014 5:08:39 AM PDT by NYer

Lapsed Catholics weigh in on why they left Church

The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) at Georgetown University estimates that there are currently approximately 32 million adults in the United States who were raised Catholic but have ceased to identify themselves as a member of the Church. A recent survey of lapsed and former Catholics in the Diocese of Springfield, Illinois, conducted by researchers at Benedictine University, offers new insights into why some Catholics stop attending Mass or leave the faith all together.

In their report “Joy and Grievance in an American Diocese,” the researchers indicate they targeted “those who had lapsed or drifted from the Church and are currently inactive in a diocesan parish.” The study also includes a survey of active Catholics for comparison.

By the numbers

These surveys did not use random sampling and fall short of being scientific polls. The authors note that the “results may not generalize to all inactive or active Catholics in the diocese.” The inactive Catholic survey was conducted online with invitations to respond published in the local news media, in advertisements and in Church publications such as the diocesan newspaper and parish bulletins.

A total of 940 individuals went to the website to take the inactive Catholic survey; of these 575 answered questions. The diocese estimates there are 145,189 parish-affiliated Catholics in Springfield.

This approach yielded a sample that appears to reflect most closely the news-attentive population of the diocese. Fifty-eight percent of respondents are age 50 or older, 39 percent have attended graduate school or have a graduate degree (only about 12 percent of the U.S. population over age 25 have a graduate degree), and 65 percent had attended a Mass in the year before being surveyed.

Only six percent of respondents are between the ages of 18 and 24. This is remarkable as the Pew Research Center and CARA surveys of Catholics and former Catholics using random sampling indicate that most who leave the Faith do so before reaching the age of 18 or between the ages of 18 to 24. Pew’s “Faith in Flux” survey, one of the most extensive studies ever conducted about why people leave the faith they were raised in, estimates that among former Catholics nationally “only one-fifth who are now unaffiliated (21 percent) and one-third who are now Protestant (34 percent) departed after turning age 24.”

Recently fallen away

Pew, CARA and other media researchers have consistently shown that news attention among Millennials (those born between 1982 and 2002) in the United States is significantly lower than those of older generations. Few in this generation who have lapsed or left were likely aware of the survey and were very unlikely to respond to a card left in a pew they have not sat in for years.

Even though the survey likely missed the largest segment of the “former Catholic” population in this area, it is still very useful. This study, more than any other I have seen, was able to tap the “angry Catholic.” Its method of recruiting respondents successfully motivated the older, news-attentive former Catholics who are likely the most aware of events occurring in the Church.

Most of the inactive respondents are quite close to their decision to lapse or leave; two-thirds of them are a member of a parish and/or attended Mass in the last year. Because this population is much smaller than that of younger Catholics who drift away, we don’t know as much about them from national studies.

Pew’s study showed that Catholics who become unaffiliated are most likely to indicate they gradually drifted away from their childhood faith (71 percent). Among those becoming Protestants, the most common reasons for leaving were that their spiritual needs were not met in the Catholic Church (71 percent) and that they found a religion they liked more (70 percent). By comparison, the Springfield survey of inactive Catholics found four major reasons for leaving: dissatisfaction with Church doctrine (e.g., birth control, ordination of women, civil marriage after divorce, fertility treatments and same-sex marriage), losing interest in the Faith and Mass, Church scandals or feeling unwelcome or judged by the Church.

Importance of community

The study includes responses to open-ended questions about decisions to leave. One example that spans several areas of dissatisfaction is: “My daughter came out to me as gay, and I went through a divorce after 28 years of marriage. The Church doesn’t want either one of us.”

Thirty percent of respondents reported that they were uncomfortable with “the feeling of community in their congregation.” By comparison, the study’s survey of active Catholics noted that the sense of community was one of the most important reasons for attending Mass at their parish. This is highly consistent with CARA’s in-pew surveys nationally that also find that a sense of welcome and community is the most common thing that attracts and keeps people active in parish life.

If there is anything that this study and other studies of Mass-attending Catholics can teach the Church, it is that parish community is the most important element of parish life. If parishioners do not feel welcome, you can expect to have fewer parishioners soon. Anything that is unwelcoming or judgmental is likely to turn people away from your parish and the Faith.

The Springfield survey of active Catholics also found that respondents wanted their priests to be more welcoming and approachable. They felt that these priests personally reaching out to inactive Catholics would likely do the most good. The survey does not provide good marks for how the clergy are currently approaching their ministry. The study’s authors note, “Parish priests or pastors were the most frequently given responses for what parishioners liked least about their parish.”

Solvable problem

One final note of caution: Respondents may also have included some who have never been Catholic but who dislike the Church. There is an active community of these individuals online who can be found in the comments section of any major news story about the Church or in the replies to Pope Francis tweets. Invitations to the survey were made in the general news media, and I would imagine there are some who found their way to the survey as a way to protest a church they’ve never been a part of.

Even with the few methodological challenges noted here, the Springfield study is important. It best reflects the raw emotions of older Catholics who have recently stopped attending Mass or left the Faith all together. It provides a window into what an “exit interview” of adult former Catholics might look like. We often miss this in national, random sample surveys where many formerly Catholic respondents left the Faith long ago — even in their teen years — and are quite distant in time and emotion from that decision.

This study further confirms that one of the Church’s biggest problems is something that is entirely solvable. A handshake, a smile, an invitation, a “glad you are here” are much more important than many priests seem to realize. As Pope Francis has shown, there is a pastoral way to approach Church doctrine with Catholics. There is another way that leads to former Catholics.


TOPICS: Catholic; Ministry/Outreach; Worship
KEYWORDS: faith; trends
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Mark M. Gray is a senior research associate for the Center of Applied Research in the Apostolate.

1 posted on 10/27/2014 5:08:39 AM PDT by NYer
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To: Tax-chick; GregB; Berlin_Freeper; SumProVita; narses; bboop; SevenofNine; Ronaldus Magnus; tiki; ...

Ping!


2 posted on 10/27/2014 5:09:08 AM PDT by NYer ("You are a puff of smoke that appears briefly and then disappears." James 4:14)
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To: NYer

This survey is pretty shallow and useless.

Oh...if only we updated the music......


3 posted on 10/27/2014 5:16:55 AM PDT by G Larry (Amnesty imposes SLAVE WAGES on LEGAL immigrants & minorities)
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To: NYer

“Lapsed Catholics weigh in on why they left Church”

Sorry, but I disagree with the very premise of that statement. I was raised a Catholic in the 50s and 60s. I never left the Church, the Church left me. After an extreme hard left turn, the Church I had been raised in was gone. By the mid 1970’s there was hardly anything remaining.

The real question should be, “Why did the Catholic Church turn away from millions of its members?”


4 posted on 10/27/2014 5:17:07 AM PDT by I cannot think of a name
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To: NYer
the Springfield survey of inactive Catholics found four major reasons for leaving: dissatisfaction with Church doctrine (e.g., birth control, ordination of women, civil marriage after divorce, fertility treatments and same-sex marriage

This is the real reason. Many people want their sexual behavior to conform to the culture, not to the Gospel.

5 posted on 10/27/2014 5:23:11 AM PDT by Campion
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To: I cannot think of a name

Agree. The most recent push for “social justice” was the last straw for me.


6 posted on 10/27/2014 5:23:57 AM PDT by Half Vast Conspiracy (I'm done being even remotely civil.)
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To: I cannot think of a name

Do you live near a Latin Mass parish?


7 posted on 10/27/2014 5:25:18 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: NYer
I drop out because of the church pushing “social justice crap”. They welcome illegal immigration, always want more money which few have because of the social justice the gubermint pushes down our throats. It's like Obama runs the church. Obama does not talk down the islamofacist, neither does the church.
8 posted on 10/27/2014 5:26:34 AM PDT by Squat (Deport the illegals now! Turn Home Depot's into the prisons to hold the illegals!.)
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To: Campion

Besides that, if a priest or a sister upset them as well.


9 posted on 10/27/2014 5:29:06 AM PDT by Biggirl
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To: vladimir998

“Do you live near a Latin Mass parish?”

No. Being down here in South Texas and close to the boarder, the Church went especially hard left. Many Churches and schools have closed, but even that hasn’t been enough to cause anyone to see the light!


10 posted on 10/27/2014 5:35:24 AM PDT by I cannot think of a name
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To: NYer
"These surveys did not use random sampling and fall short of being scientific polls." Dang, who knew!
11 posted on 10/27/2014 5:36:13 AM PDT by SIRTRIS
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To: Campion

“This is the real reason. Many people want their sexual behavior to conform to the culture, not to the Gospel. “

“This is the real reason. Many priests want their sexual behavior to conform to the culture, not to the Gospel.”

Fixed it.


12 posted on 10/27/2014 5:59:55 AM PDT by aMorePerfectUnion ( "I didn't leave the Central Oligarchy Party. It left me." - Ronaldus Maximus)
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To: NYer
And the number one answer was:

“Spiritual needs not met: 67%”

The second highest response “lost interest” is just generic and doesn't provide a reason.

As a devout Catholic who is very active in his parish this is something I see everyday. Good faithful Catholics trying to raise their families in the faith and pass on moral and spiritual values to their children often feel neglected and abused. They are willing to give so much to the Church but get nothing in return.

I have never seen anyone disenchanted by no ordination of women, the pro life position of the church or the church's position on same sex marriage. Even on issues of sexuality where there may not be perfect agreement I have never seen it a problem.

What I do see as a problem is the luke warm, wishy washy attempts to be politically correct and ignoring the needs of those who truly want spiritual comfort and support.

I recently talked to a man with two children who was thinking of joining our parish. He said what he liked about us were we were strong Catholics. We were not wishy washy liberals. We stood together and supported the families in the parish when they were in need. We had a sense of community.

13 posted on 10/27/2014 6:07:47 AM PDT by detective
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To: Biggirl

Aw, a nun yelled at a kid or hit him on the hand with a ruler. Not fair! I’m leaving the church! Such a dumb reason but, I guess, any reason will do for some people.


14 posted on 10/27/2014 6:13:22 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Richard III: Loyalty Binds Me)
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To: G Larry
This survey is pretty shallow and useless. Oh...if only we updated the music......
Couldn't agree more, and speaking of music ... I came home from 'Nam in '68, went to Mass and there, adjacent to the altar, were a bunch of dirty, long hair, dope smoking hippies singing folk songs.
That was the beginning of the end for me.
15 posted on 10/27/2014 6:21:36 AM PDT by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: I cannot think of a name

I used to think the same way. But, for some reason I knew that if I was miserable then Jesus REALLY must be miserable. I began to go by and visit Jesus when I would ride by a parish and I would go in and look for the Tabernacle. And I would sit with Him for a bit. I realized that He is there for me and I should go for Him. So, now when I go to Mass I know I am there for Him rather than the music or camaraderie with others. When Jesus asked the Apostles to stay an hour with Him in the garden, He was really asking us to spend an hour with Him. It is sort of like going over to your favorite uncle’s house when you want to visit him and there are a lot of people there, some people you don’t like. But you remind yourself that you are there spend time with your uncle. And he really appreciates that you took the time to visit him.


16 posted on 10/27/2014 6:31:44 AM PDT by Slyfox (To put on the mind of George Washington read all of Deuteronomy 28)
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To: oh8eleven

” I came home from ‘Nam in ‘68, went to Mass and”

I came home about the same time on a three day. Went to Church with my family, only to hear the priest say that we should “pray for those brave young men that had the courage to follow their convictions and flee rather than be part of such a war.”

That afternoon, in private, I told my Dad (World War II vet) that I’d never be back. He said he couldn’t blame me and he was personally disgusted, but he had my brothers and sisters to think about (all younger and in Catholic Schools) and he would have to keep going no matter what. Never set foot in Church again and he never said a word about it.


17 posted on 10/27/2014 6:32:45 AM PDT by I cannot think of a name
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To: I cannot think of a name
pray for those brave young men that had the courage to follow their convictions
I never heard that, but after my hippie exposure, I never really went back either.
Personally, I didn't give a damn about the cowards who went to Canada. But I got more than pi$$ed off when feckin' Carter let them slither back across the border.
Thanks for your service ...
18 posted on 10/27/2014 6:39:36 AM PDT by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: I cannot think of a name
By the mid 1970’s there was hardly anything remaining.

The Catholic Church is the mystical body of Christ and is the only one able to consecrate the Bread and wine to become the precious Body and Blood of Jesus.

No other church can make that claim and never will be able to.

19 posted on 10/27/2014 6:47:42 AM PDT by verga (You anger Catholics by telling them a lie, you anger protestants by telling them the truth.)
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To: I cannot think of a name

“Spiritual needs not met: 67%
Lost interest: 66%”

Now whose fault is that? It’s between you and the Lord, no one else. The Catholic Church might have it’s faults, but no way I would abandon Jesus in the Eucharist. Read the Bible. That helps.


20 posted on 10/27/2014 6:51:07 AM PDT by NKP_Vet ("PRO FIDE, PRO UTILITATE HOMINUM")
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