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You can see the rest of this question and response to it at the link. It sounds like the boyfriend is controlling of this woman to a point and doesn't want to commit to her. Ultimately, however, she made her decision and stays with him and got an abortion. This is an example of abortion benefiting men. He can sleep with her and keep her until he either decides to commit or move on (likely the latter), but he'll have no responsibility for a child he didn't want. Sad.

Her mother writes this in, and we find this isn't the first abortion she's had done as she aborted at 16. Her mother is supportive of her abortions too. The only problem she has with her grandchild being aborted was that perhaps her daughter didn't want the abortion. As long as she did, it was ok with her.

1 posted on 08/30/2013 9:39:01 PM PDT by Pinkbell
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My thought in these situations is why didn’t you take the baby?


2 posted on 08/30/2013 9:42:31 PM PDT by montanajoe
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Utter trash.


3 posted on 08/30/2013 9:42:48 PM PDT by Viennacon
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Girl without a soul forced by her boyfriend without a soul, killing a baby with a soul.


4 posted on 08/30/2013 9:45:42 PM PDT by doc1019
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I don’t know why women are so gullible...so inclined to follow a guy......and why stay with a guy for several yrs who apparently has no intention of making it serious....


6 posted on 08/30/2013 9:50:04 PM PDT by cherry
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The mother needs to realize that most men are all to willing to be cads. The sooner women realize that men are only as responsible as women make them to be in a relationship the sooner they’ll find a guy that will marry them. If her daughter would quit putting her feet in the the air for the guy he’d either marry her or leave. Either way the problem is solved.

It is simply that simple. If she wants the guy to commit to her stop mating with him until after she stands under a canopy with him.

The old saw applies here: “Why buy a cow when you get the milk for free?”


9 posted on 08/30/2013 9:58:06 PM PDT by Fai Mao (Genius at Large)
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I fully accept her decision to have an abortion, but what I can't accept is that a man who professes to love my daughter would press her to have an abortion because "he is not ready". And she is still with him, hoping he will ask her to marry him, and wanting to marry him, this man who forced her to terminate her pregnancy because it didn't suit him.

What the hell is she talking about? She accepts her daughter's decision to have the abortion, but can't accept the boyfriend's decision to abort the baby?

11 posted on 08/30/2013 10:02:17 PM PDT by Slyfox (Without the Right to Life, all other rights are meaningless.)
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My daughter and son-in-law have one 2 year old little boy. My daughter is an only child, and I fear her boy will be her only child, as she's had two miscarriages. I know it shouldn't, but it bothers me that this young woman has aborted two of her mother's grandchildren, and it doesn't seem to matter to her mother.
15 posted on 08/30/2013 10:39:05 PM PDT by Razz Barry (Round'em up, send'em home.)
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Tragic and this will haunt this girl later.
26 posted on 08/30/2013 11:24:20 PM PDT by A CA Guy ( God Bless America, God Bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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Then came the bombshell. She found she was pregnant.

It was probably closer to this: "She decided to stop taking her birth control pills without telling her boyfriend, thinking that if she became pregnant he would be pressured into marrying her. Then she found she was pregnant, exactly as she had planned."

I once spoke with a young woman who confessed to doing exactly that. I don't know why she confided in me, but she didn't seem at all embarrassed. She was just a few months pregnant, and she intended to keep the baby. The boyfriend had so far not proposed. She thought it was possible that he would. The baby was important, the father was not. The court would force him to pay child support. She hoped she would be a good mother. The notion that a good mother tries to ensure that a father will be an active part of his child's life had apparently never occurred to her. It was all about her and her baby.

If the boyfriend of the woman in the article is actually the father, then of course he is scum to want his (or any) child aborted. That's probably why she chose him.

28 posted on 08/30/2013 11:32:43 PM PDT by TChad
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If only she kept her knees together and just gave him a Lewinsky, a child would not have been murdered in the Womb and the Woman wouldn’t be emotionally scarred for life.


29 posted on 08/30/2013 11:32:48 PM PDT by Kickass Conservative (Liberal Democrats = Communists. RINO Republicans = Communist Sympathizers.)
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The thing I don’t understand...there are so many methods of birth control. Why put yourself in the position to have to do such a thing?

Yeah...I’m not a kid. But I was at one time.


32 posted on 08/30/2013 11:38:54 PM PDT by berdie
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Any “boyfriend” who advocates killing his own child is NOT husband/father material.


44 posted on 08/31/2013 5:38:03 AM PDT by rfreedom4u (I have a copy of the Constitution! And I'm not afraid to use it!)
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He comes from a large, tight-knit family from a diaspora community.

What a convoluted way to say "muslim". Can't say it out straight in Britain anymore, eh?

Western girls hooking up with muzzies always get burned in the end. Sometimes literally so. Yet they keep ignoring the wealth of evidence that bad things will happen. My sympathy for these fools is used up.

47 posted on 08/31/2013 6:03:14 AM PDT by Moltke (Sapere aude!)
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If he does not want his own baby, he does not want her either.

She should dump him and keep her baby. Then get child support.


50 posted on 09/01/2013 10:50:32 PM PDT by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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