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Men not marrying? How deep does "the problem" go?
YouTube ^ | March 15, 2012 | Karen Straughan

Posted on 04/23/2017 3:45:20 PM PDT by grundle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4

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TOPICS: Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: feminism; genderwars; marriage; mgtow
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To: huldah1776

I presume that by “quarterback”, you mean pastor or priest?


401 posted on 04/24/2017 11:26:31 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (April 2006 Message from Dan: http://www.dansimmons.com/news/message/2006_04.htm)
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To: huldah1776

I bet most of them would turn out to be religious couples, too.


402 posted on 04/24/2017 11:28:01 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (April 2006 Message from Dan: http://www.dansimmons.com/news/message/2006_04.htm)
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To: metmom

> Women don’t like to feel like they are being treated as property instead of equals.

I’ve never met a women happy with equality. It makes women miserable.

>Honestly, a man who lovingly leads is not going to have the rebellion issues. And if he does, it behooves him to find out why she’s feeling that way and *gasp* maybe even CHANGE something he’s doing.

BS. Rebellion is rebellion and the person responsible for that rebellion is the person rebelling. In one moment you go from women are equal to it’s all men’s fault when they’re women rebel. Classic feminists.


403 posted on 04/24/2017 11:29:01 AM PDT by RedWulf
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To: caww

>If a husband is domineering she’s going to ‘naturally’ rebel against this....her desire is to be an ‘equal partner’ in a marriage....has nothing to do with her “behavior” as if she’s a child and needs discipline.

Women don’t desire equality. They desire domination and when they get it makes them unhappy because women are happiest when their man is superior to them.

>And btw...God never told the woman to “love’ her husband....he told the man that.....a woman was called to “respect” her husband and that sir..is earned.

No God told women to obey her husband. Feminist like you really hate that concept so you lie about it.


404 posted on 04/24/2017 11:32:12 AM PDT by RedWulf
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To: central_va; metmom

I personally did not see any defense of H-1B, globalism or the corporate scum in her statements.


405 posted on 04/24/2017 11:33:29 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (April 2006 Message from Dan: http://www.dansimmons.com/news/message/2006_04.htm)
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To: Secret Agent Man

/// That is because women are hypocritical about sexual strategies, inherently assuming theirs is totally moral and acceptable and guys strategies are just awful and base and primal. Theirs is the same but they don’t have a problem with theirs also being awful and base and primal. ///

The sexual strategy thing is a problem, because women often ignore younger guys or beta provider types when they are younger. Women have higher sexual-market-value (SMV) when they are younger and it declines with age.

Its a timing problem.

Men’s SMV tends to increase with age (which often correlates to wealth). So most women get to “party” at an earlier age than men, pissing off a lot of younger men who are passed over. Then when those younger men are older, it becomes THEIR turn to party with younger women.

Why should older men be expected to take in the age group of women who ignored them when they were younger? Or for that matter help raise some other guy’s kid conceived with some alpha dude back when she was riding the **** carousel?

Not my job.


406 posted on 04/24/2017 11:36:14 AM PDT by baltimorepoet
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Not within the household, no. The church is more like the assistant coaches, trainers, physical therapists, and ... cheerleaders! Which is why it is so important for men to be active in the church. Accountability and support using their spiritual gifts for the growth of the team.

I’ll have to get that analogy transferred to the military since we are at war spiritually, big time.


407 posted on 04/24/2017 11:37:29 AM PDT by huldah1776 ( Vote Pro-life! Allow God to bless America before He avenges the death of the innocent.)
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To: grundle

I don’t understand why people can’t figure out the man has yet to be born that will buy the cow when he can get the milk for free.


408 posted on 04/24/2017 11:37:32 AM PDT by VA Voter
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To: metmom

Agreed. Unlike women becoming more masculine, men becoming more feminine is a bigger problem, IMO, because masculine and feminine women alike will not desire them, leading to more incel. Meanwhile, some masculine men will still find a woman who works out hard attractive.


409 posted on 04/24/2017 11:40:08 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (April 2006 Message from Dan: http://www.dansimmons.com/news/message/2006_04.htm)
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To: metmom

Some women could physically abuse their spouse but more often than not it’s psychological abuse. Both are horrible.


410 posted on 04/24/2017 11:40:35 AM PDT by huldah1776 ( Vote Pro-life! Allow God to bless America before He avenges the death of the innocent.)
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To: Chgogal
Part of Grace Kelly's allure?

No tattoos!

411 posted on 04/24/2017 11:49:30 AM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: central_va
A backlash?

Unless I'm mistaken, the Muslim mistreatment of women has been going on for over a thousand years. Feminism, not so much.

412 posted on 04/24/2017 12:00:15 PM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: baltimorepoet
Well, through this heated discussion, I did not catch the religion part. Regardless, the Red Pill is simple; it is the current REALITY. Its the reality of the of nature, the culture, the law, etc., and everything else in life. The only thing we are doing is accepting the reality and working with it.

After seeing the rules of nature, the slanted and biased law, the overwhelming distorted abnormal guidelines being shoved down our throats in school and the culture, a complete RATIONAL response to it all would be to not get married.

413 posted on 04/24/2017 12:03:14 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: gogeo
Modern radical extremist Muslim fundamentalism, militant Islam, tracks along with the rise of Western feminism. I say it is no coincidence.

Women in places like Afghanistan in the 1960's were not treated like second class citizens. IMO The rise of the 'Feminist Movement' in the West ruined it for them.

414 posted on 04/24/2017 12:08:01 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: Secret Agent Man
That is because women are hypocritical about sexual strategies, inherently assuming theirs is totally moral and acceptable and guys strategies are just awful and base and primal. Theirs is the same but they don’t have a problem with theirs also being awful and base and primal.

Absolutely correct.

415 posted on 04/24/2017 12:08:15 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: metmom

Ah yes, this whole “no difference between the two” insanity. And it is insanity.


416 posted on 04/24/2017 12:19:59 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: fatima

I don’t want to speak for him, but I believe some of what he’s saying here is intended to get a reaction.


417 posted on 04/24/2017 12:20:39 PM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: RedWulf

I didn’t say it was all men’s fault.

You’re assuming there.

What about men who don’t behave properly?

What are the consequences for them?


418 posted on 04/24/2017 12:21:18 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: RedWulf; caww
No God told women to obey her husband. Feminist like you really hate that concept so you lie about it.

And God also told men to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it.

And that men are to treat their wives as they treat their own bodies, which they don't abuse but nurture and care for.

Women are not blind or stupid and they can see when that isn't happening.

There's a back and forth dynamic there and men are responsible to lead and have abdicated that role.

Or they turn into little petty tyrants in the home, demanding submission and the wife walks around on eggshells hoping to not tick him off so he doesn't blow a gasket at her.

EVERY complaint a man has about women's behavior can be said about men.

Not thin and attractive and when they were younger? Check.

Controlling and domineering? Check.

Think the world revolves around them and it's all the other's fault? Check.

Two very imperfect people get married and BOTH come into the marriage with baggage and BOTH need to work together to deal with it.

It's a rare couple I've met who are so compatible that they say they don't have any problems.

The rest who stay together are just mature enough to have figured out how to work through it TOGETHER.

Not he commands and she submits.

419 posted on 04/24/2017 12:33:54 PM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: ConservativeMind

After getting an earful of “all men are rapists/predators/oppressors”, including the outrageous idea that even incidental contact constitutes sexual assault, I decided that it wasn’t worth the risk. It was as bad as a divorce.


420 posted on 04/24/2017 12:33:58 PM PDT by Fred Hayek (The Democratic Party is now the operational arm of the CPUSA)
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