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Mormon Men Delaying the Walk Down the Aisle
Beliefnet ^ | April 22, 2011 | Peggy Fletcher Stack

Posted on 05/15/2011 7:27:30 PM PDT by TheDingoAteMyBaby

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To: Jonty30

Um...not true at all. Even at three years apart:

Child 1 - 27
Child 2 - 30
Child 3 - 33
Child 4 - 36
Child 5 - 39

If you want them you can do it. And closer in age is easier still.


21 posted on 05/15/2011 8:25:11 PM PDT by RockinRight (Cain in 2012)
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To: Jonty30

3 is normal. 5 is as large as I’ve seen.

Nonetheless, where there’s a will there’s a way. A 30 year old male would probably marry a somewhat younger female, so let’s say she gives birth every 2.75 years. That’s about 40 on her 5th child, so that’s really not that hard.

We have a couple (Catholic) up the road with 13 kids. She’s actually very young for 13 kids, and (apparently) very fertile.

Her oldest is only about 25....my wife taught him in her math class. Where there’s a will.......


22 posted on 05/15/2011 8:25:27 PM PDT by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain & proud of it: Truly Supporting the Troops means praying for their Victory!)
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To: achilles2000

The 9.9 is a blonde.


23 posted on 05/15/2011 8:26:30 PM PDT by Palladin (Sarah Palin in 2012!)
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To: RockinRight; sten

I dated the President of the NOW chapter of her University, after a few months with me she had resigned and dropped out of NOW.


24 posted on 05/15/2011 8:30:16 PM PDT by ansel12 ( JIM DEMINT "I believe [Palins] done more for the Republican Party than anyone since Ronald Reagan")
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To: achilles2000

The diff between a 9.7 and a 9.9:

she only tells blonde jokes.


25 posted on 05/15/2011 8:35:39 PM PDT by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain & proud of it: Truly Supporting the Troops means praying for their Victory!)
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To: xzins

I dated a Catholic girl back in High School with 13 kids in their family. She and a sister were born in the same year. Then a brother born the following year, and two more brothers born in the same year following that IIRC. Real neat family, and an interesting study in demographics with all of the issues and problems that a sample of 13 people might give.


26 posted on 05/15/2011 8:35:50 PM PDT by 21twelve ( You can go from boom to bust, from dreams to a bowl of dust ... another lost generation.)
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To: achilles2000

This isn’t surprising. The humanistic culture of the government schools is so powerful that it overwhelms even the relatively strong Mormon culture. Imagine what it is doing to the average “happy-clappy” Evangelical teen and young adult.

Come on. Getting married at 24 is a bad thing? I don’t think so for one minute. I was 28 and definitely glad I didn’t get married at 20. People should not get married before finishing college and getting a job for sure. How awful to advocate getting married at 20.....I guess we do need our welfare folks and McDonald’s workers.......it is insane to marry at 20.....sorry but it is.


27 posted on 05/15/2011 8:40:28 PM PDT by napscoordinator
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To: RockinRight

Oh I know it can be done, but the older she is when she starts, the less likely the success.

I’ve heard that a 27 year old woman has only half the chance of getting pregnant than if she had been 19.


28 posted on 05/15/2011 8:43:34 PM PDT by Jonty30
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To: RockinRight
I bashed nobody.

If you wish to produce data to refute my statement, the floor is yours.

29 posted on 05/15/2011 8:43:34 PM PDT by SIDENET ("If that's your best, your best won't do." -Dee Snider)
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To: Jonty30

I had my first at 26. We’re expecting our 6th in October. I haven’t hit my 40’s yet. Still time for a couple more. It can be done. Oh, no twins, either. :0)


30 posted on 05/15/2011 8:46:16 PM PDT by samiam1972 ("It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."-Mother Teresa)
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby
“It takes effort to go on an actual date, which discourages a lot of guys.”

Duh?

Guys who think like that are not marriage material. It also takes effort to be a husband and father. It takes effort to just plain grow up.

31 posted on 05/15/2011 8:48:01 PM PDT by Lauren BaRecall (Boehner, you B@st@rd!)
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To: napscoordinator

My niece was 19 and her husband had just turned 21. He is a carpenter and she is going to a local college to become a teacher. They own their own home and just had their first baby a few weeks ago. Virgins when they got married so earlier was better for them. They’re doing great! I think your broad brush is a bit ridiculous.


32 posted on 05/15/2011 8:51:10 PM PDT by samiam1972 ("It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."-Mother Teresa)
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To: RockinRight
my cousin married late..age 40...to a woman who was 35...they wanted children...she had always planned on have SEVEN...

so they began....she had a baby every year for several years and whalaa...she had her seventh...

but they didn't stop at that...they now have 11...

a woman is fully capable of producing babies up into her 40's....she just needs a willing partner....

33 posted on 05/15/2011 8:52:32 PM PDT by cherry
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To: samiam1972

Lol.

You’ve been blessed.


34 posted on 05/15/2011 8:56:38 PM PDT by Jonty30
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To: samiam1972

My niece was 19 and her husband had just turned 21. He is a carpenter and she is going to a local college to become a teacher. They own their own home and just had their first baby a few weeks ago. Virgins when they got married so earlier was better for them. They’re doing great! I think your broad brush is a bit ridiculous.

Just as using your ONE experience is ridiculous. We will see how they do in ten years. By the way, they don’t own their own home. Maybe in 30 years they will but definitely not yet.


35 posted on 05/15/2011 8:56:56 PM PDT by napscoordinator
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To: napscoordinator

Okay, his twin brother married the year before with similar results. My parents, my brother and his wife, my nieces in-laws, my in-laws, my husband and I all got married before the age of 24. This is just immediate family here. Should I go on? I have lots of friends.

You’re right. They don’t own the home outright yet. However, he bought it on a 15 year loan three years ago. He didn’t see the point of renting and bought a small 3 bedroom home after he got his first job out of high school. So they’ll own it before too long. There are stories like this all over the place. Sorry you’re not seeing it. It’s pretty amazing! Good, strong conservative kids.


36 posted on 05/15/2011 9:03:07 PM PDT by samiam1972 ("It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."-Mother Teresa)
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To: napscoordinator

I couldn’t even afford to move out of my mother’s house at 20...


37 posted on 05/15/2011 9:03:52 PM PDT by RockinRight (Cain in 2012)
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To: samiam1972

I know people who married very young and did fine.

I, OTOH, could barely afford gas and car insurance at age 20...so thankfully I wasn’t married!


38 posted on 05/15/2011 9:05:58 PM PDT by RockinRight (Cain in 2012)
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To: RockinRight

My husband couldn’t afford it either. He was waiting tables while getting a higher education. I taught and worked at a children’s bookstore to help us pay bills. We both delivered newspapers on the weekend. I was able to quit working when he got his first “real” job and we’ve always been one income. We made it work.

I know that it’s not for everyone. Not everyone finds the right person early in life. I just didn’t like the broad brush of everyone that marries before age 24 must be on welfare that was stated up thread a bit. Seemed kind of silly from my point of reference.

Good night, all! My kids are up with the sun and it’s past my bedtime. :o)


39 posted on 05/15/2011 9:10:42 PM PDT by samiam1972 ("It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."-Mother Teresa)
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To: xzins
Your thinking (or at least expressing the subject as you have) is normal for the "secular (non-Mormon") society, but to a devout Mormon, the hereafter is of utmost importance and as they've been taught from the cradle onward, a man (and woman too, for that matter) MUST have a spouse to "attain the Celestial Kingdom."

Without a spouse, one would languish in a lower heaven and it's not acceptable (according to Mormon standards,) therefore marriage is a "must" not an "option."

40 posted on 05/15/2011 9:13:13 PM PDT by zerosix (native sunflower)
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