Look, I didn't break down your family and I've never done anything to destroy any family. And this thread is NOT ABOUT YOU, okay?
Get a grip on your bitterness before you're eaten alive by it.
Good luck.
Generally these threads are about you and your ideas, believe me I could care less, any problems that I have had are long gone. One of the nice things that I have discovered about FR is people don't cut you a lot of slack, which is a good thing.
You seem to have few bad rows to hoe and have taken an antimale stance. Grow up and live with it, I like women in principle but after my last experience will never wed again, once betrayed ever armored.