Hence the name. "Decadence" always brings to mind "nice and sweet." Leave it up to those nasty Christians to associate such a loving word with debauchery, decay, and amorality.
But not everybody comes for those reasons."
Uh, Ben ... I hate to break your balloon, but NOBODY comes for those reasons. If you guys are so proud of being homosexual, why do you constantly try to hide your perversion behind this smokescreen of "camaraderie" and brotherhood? Why don't you just come out and admit that events like this provide an excellent place to find new men you can bugger?