I don't know a whole lot about JFJ, but I have to believe that such tactics under the review of a larger group of Christian believers would be dismissed as rude and disrespectful.
I suspect you had some rogue elements.
Perhaps, but I was in a unique position to know what was going on, as it turns out. If you're curious as to what that position was, I will tell you, but I try to keep discussions about me personally to a minimum on the Free Republic, because they are usually nothing more than fodder for personal attacks.
But this topic is near and dear to my heart, so say the word if you want more specifics.