I see. But in this case, I think you either have to conclude God isn't fulfilling very specific promises, or Israel is in "breach of their covenant". You might conclude the breach is other than failing to recognize Jesus, but I would be curious what alternative you come up with. I don't remember history accounting for a lot of idolatry amoung Israel in the first century. So if not idolatry, then what did they do to incur God's wrath?
And as for my telling people. I can point to many verses that say to do just that. Mostly what I'm doing is reminding people of what God said.
I hate multiple choice religion. Seriously, I just disagree with the parameters you put on other people's faith, trying to make it fit with your own personal understanding.