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I've thought about it. That's what wimps tell themselves to justify passivity, fear, confusion, and excessive inhibition when they are being abused, deceived, ridiculed, or otherwise wronged. Blandness is not spoken at my house. People get what they earn. A good kick in the behind is necessary corrective action.
I know you'll probably lash out at me for posting this, and that's fine. I'm sending this in a caring frame of mind. Do with it what you will.