[cardinal4]

We do have an agreement on paper, and it was her cooking that got me! She also knows the infield fly rule. We own a house together, and share all the bills, some are in her name, some in mine. We both have kids from previous engagements and she carries a picture of my daughter, and she has never even met her. When I found the picture in her wallet while looking for money, (with permission, of course!)I knew she was the one. Thanks for the advice, though.

[Pukin Dog]

On paper? What does that mean? I wish you the best, but if that 'paper' does not have the stamp from a notary, you might as well smoke that paper in your pipe.

[SauronOfMordor]

Pre-nuptuals can be unenforcible, dpending on the state and the circumstances (I researched this for another thread). A lot of courts can toss pre-nups as "not in the public interests", and a pre-nup limiting child-support is unlikely to be paid attention to