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Thank You.....my ex is now going thru a divorce with the once very wealthy older man she left me for and refuses to talk to me about it and berates my 14 year old daughter who wants to live with us down here.

If you let it...it becomes a nightmare...a costly one.

At least I only have 3.5 years more of this shite.

Why did I marry and procreate with her. She was beautiful and I thought i could make anything work back then.

LOL...now I know different. The only person who despises her more than me is my #2 wife of 7 years who loves the girls and loathes how my ex raises them. It's a travesty and we are helpless to do anything about it.

Like I said, she drops dead tommorow and I'd work hard to help my girls with the trauma but I'd light up a big stogie first. She is a completle neurotic and unbalanced shrew who should be on a Prozac drip.

surplus ectoplasm in my view...

we need to regain our balls, women have literally eaten our lunch in the divorce wars and gutless irresponsible men have played right into the media's hands on this one. All you ever hear about it is men shirking parental responsibility or cheating with younger women (who are miraculously held as innocent participants)....what a crock!

I would only venture that women naturally raise nursing babies and very young girls better than men but beyond that, it often depends on the parent...not any inherent gender specific conventional wisdom.

Do I sound bitter?

Hell yes....this topic is the absolute only thing in my life that has ever essentially beaten me and left me just "licking my nuts" metaphorically. It is a dagger in my heart to watch my children raised poorly in a tumultuous environment and be 99% helpless to stop it short of incurring a class A felony beef.

It sux....all you young horndogs out there wishing to spread yer wonderful genetic material into the future:

BE VERY CAREFUL....YOU HAVE CHILDREN...THEY HAVE YOUR HEART FOREVER....BUT YOUR WIFE OWNS THEM TILL THEY ARE 18...NOT YOU!