And you are?
If we accuse a complying poster of violating this agreement we will ping that poster when making the accusation and we will specify the violation."
Yes. I signed the agreement, and where it was pointed out to me I could be in contravention, I've retracted the remark. In this case, i'm afraid there's nothing to back off from. 'Don't offend AndrewC' wasn't part of the agreement.
Let's say I think Kobe Bryant raped a woman in Colorado. I might then post that Kobe Bryant is a rapist. 'Rapist' is about as bad an insult as I can come up with. Another poster mght believe that KB is innocent. Am I, by saying that he is a rapist, insulting or belittling what the other poster believes? Of course not.