[ThinkPlease]

You both are out of control. Take a deep breath, and decide if the argument is worth it.

[AndrewC]

You both are out of control.

Have I, unprovoked, belittled anyone?

[AndrewC]

Take a deep breath, and decide if the argument is worth it.

The argument is about the agreement. If using the words drunk, insane, or comparing someone with a 7 year old is not belittling, then say so. If they are belittling, and I believe they are, then the agreement is being broken by those accusing others of breaking it.