That's probably true. I'm pretty open, too much so at times, but I haven't hung around drunks since my alcoholic husband divorced me for having an affair, make that two. Drinking ruined my marriage. But I don't hang around people who drink too much and blab their inner secrets. I had shock enough with a Christian woman friend who came to me with some new teaching about Jesus the man and wanted to go into my bedroom with me to teach me. I couldn't be friends with her after that because I was so shocked. Still am and she's dead.
Maybe it just my generation? I have heard from several women that they can accept threesome with 2 women and man as a feminen thing that's kinky but out reject opposite, because they want man masculine not some pillow biter.
Some of it *must* be your generation. Women in my generation were just starting to go to bars. Respectable women never did that before, especially alone. I never cared for the bar scene which was probably due to my not-very-strict Methodist upbringing where they frowned on drinking.
I suppose I don't know the half of it what people do these days. It's just as well.
Are you a little voyeuristic about listing to these deep secrets? I don't like to hear that stuff and if someone I am getting close to comes up with strange ideas, I get rid of them.