[my_pointy_head_is_sharp]

Now, if you're gay, you wern't born that way. You can change your ways with therapy.

I'm straight. I'd hate to think that with therapy I could change my "ways".

[Imagine]

Being straight is not deviant. Your error is equating gay and straight as the same mental and physical drives, just with different outcomes. The gay urge is an obsession that had deep dark motivations. For the most part, the homosexual urge can be modified, reduced or eliminated with therapy that gets to the root causes -- not the feel good therapy (express yourself) of the APA and MTV.