A gay guy tried to "recruit" you? How exactly did he do that? Did he make a pass at you, which you then turned down? How is that "recruitment"?
A gay guy tried to "recruit" you? How exactly did he do that?
It's never happened to you? I'm surprised! It's happened to me at least twice that I can think of right offhand - once with a (closeted) gay scoutmaster who offered to drive me home and asked me questions about "wet dreams" and so on. Later he got canned when too many parents got upset about - among other things - the sauna he built in his home and into which he invited many of his charges to come sit naked with him. And as an adult, there was this (mostly uncloseted) gay co-worker who would come rest his hands on my shoulders while I was on my computer. Years ago, a close relative of mine told of an attempted recruitment by his boss when they shared a hotel room on a business trip. I suspect that most targets of this kind of thing will never tell anyone else due to embarrassment. And again, I'm surprised it's never happened to you or to someone you know who later told you about it.