There's nothing wrong with speaking your mind. If I thought there was I would have gone to DU and been a lemming. I just hate to see stupidity and failure. Kobe was stupid and his failure is complete (to quote Luke's father). It's sad all the way around. The victim is assaulted, the wife and kids are hurt and embarrassed and Kobe's life as he knew it is over (meaning fan appreciation, etc.). All for 20-90 seconds of lust. Dumb.