As a rule, gay men tend to be in much better shape than straight men, so your characterization is skewed.
I guess two fatso, 56-year-old straight people are less gross in your view.
Btw, last time I was at the "titty" bar, I saw a couple of girls doing the French kissing routine with each other, and all the straight men in the audience were cheering them on.
You seem to be disgusted only at 50% of the homosexual behavior, (where is your outrage at the lesbian kisses?) Are you one of the few straight guys to become offended with lesbian porn?
Funny, my buddies brother didn't look to good when he was gasping for his last breath in the hospital, as he died a brutal death from Aids.
As to the ones still living, I've seen them in their gay pride parade...A bunch of 40 year olds were wearing diapers while caring a big ol dildo down the street. Now that is something to be proud of. You betcha.....