For one thing, this is a mega-BS alert. God does not make mistakes. If He wanted you to be female, you would be born a female. Period. Same thing for males.
Secondly, I have a major problem with this being in a magazine whose target audience is high school age kids. Is this kind of stuff really appropriate for kids?
The boy who became a girl talks about how, if he had webbed toes, nobody would get upset if he fixed them... his college chaplain participating in a "christening" of him as a her...
This is why babies are never born with limbs missing, or without sight or hearing, or mentally retarded.