I was blessed by marrying my soul-mate, and sharing that completely uninhibited, sexually passionate marriage the first (and only) time.
May God lead you to that right person this time......HE is faithful, and it is HE who gives us the desire, and means of expression within marriage, and a level of pleasure that people who sleep around (like a few of the guys on this thread), don't ever find.
You and your husband are truly blessed and I know God will bless me and my future bride with a very sexually passionate marriage.