[Cogadh na Sith]

You can't change other people but you can find out what it is about you that is attracted to people like that....even if there are no visible signs...You may be drawn to their "shadow"..some unhealthy part of yourself that is attracted to the unhealthy.

Yeah, that's my point--they were both nice looking, conservative, Godly women from good families. Tell me Karnak, what features shall I look for now? Homely crack whores?

I don't buy that dopey new-age crap. 'Sides, how do you account for mental illness in the case of the second?

[sonserae]

There are a lot of "Godly Christians" who give the illusion
of being okay...but they are posers putting on an act giving
the impression to others that they have no problems. What happens is that they finally "BREAK" because this whole time they weren't allowing themselves to be "human"...We as Christians must not have our churches be a place where we have to be "perfect" to attend. We need it to be a place where we are "REAL" and admit to our weaknesses, emotions and thoughts and openly help each other to deal with them in a healthy way. You need to find a Christian woman that is REAL.