If you asked my 61 year old father whom he'd like to see brought home, he'd answer simply with: someone who works hard and likes the Cleveland Browns. And he has adored every non-lily white skinned man I have brought to him to meet.
One reason maybe they truly have no problem with cultural diversity. Another maybe the emporer has beautiful clothes syndrome. I think most of it is the latter.
And many people make judgements based on other things. As in: is daughter's potential boyfriend hard working? Educated? Has a future?
FReepers are supposed to be oh-so concerned with "real" values. I guess for some on FR, those "real" values begin and end with race, no questions of any other values asked.