The situation is like two men sitting at opposite ends of a boat thats sinking from one end. The guy at the sinking end yells to the guy on the other side ... "help !!!!" the boat is sinking. I'm bailing as fast as I can but one person is not fast enough to keep up with the water ... if you help we can bail the water out of the boat and then fix the leak. The other guy says with his arms folded and nose in the air ... I don't know what's wrong with you ... I'm high and dry ... and I'm not going to help ... after all YOU choose to sit on THAT side of the boat ... you're just a whiner. A few minutes go by and the arrogant ass on the formally dry side is starting to get wet ... he says ... OH MY God you're right !!! the boat IS sinking I'll help you now ... response from the other side ... blub blub blub