I cannot possibly imagine how you have concluded I am "not anti-abortion", or a "feminist quasi conservative". I really cannot.
I just know that people's hearts and minds are often changed on this topic - usually not overnight, but over years - but rarely from bludgeoning by those on the pro-life side.
For example, I read the beating a woman (you posted to her, so I think you will know the thread I mean - your post was relatively kind, especially compared to the majority of them) took on another other thread last night. An on-the-fence observer might have concluded that the goal of the pro-life movement is to make a woman who has had an abortion hate herself.
That's not MY goal, and I don't want to be associated with it.
People here went so far as to suggest she prays to Satan (she's Jewish). It made me sick to watch.
Nobody is going to win anyone over by behaving that way.
Nobody.