Let me tell you something: If I had been running a business and the Lambda Legal Foundation or the Human Rights Campaign came knocking on my door, trying to tell me how to run things, I'd immediately have security escort them from the premises. If they tried to use the courts to get their way, and a judge ordered me to do what they wanted me to do, I would tell the judge no. I'd go to jail, certainly, but I would sit there for as long as it took, using the media to tell my story (ala Vanessa Leggett) until those A-holes backed down.
If people would just stand up to these jerks and tell them this is as far as they will go, they would be doing what Jesse Jackson is doing right now: Fighting for relevance.
....same thing my husband said! He has been in business for 37 years, and says he'll be damned if the government thinks they're going to tell him who he has to hire! We are talking one mean 73 year old Italian boy here! I say boy cause inside his mind, he is only 18, if that!!!!
Good luck with that. The media is often nine tenths of the problem.