Nobody is saying they are required to do anything. If gays kept their sex life to themselves we wouldn't be talking about the homosexual agenda.
Statistics tell us gay foster parents are more apt to molest children. We're able to point to the link, the likelyhood and the lasting effects of homosexuality and child molestation. There is also additional information entitled Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse. Nobody requires homosexuals to speak out against the homosexual agenda, but we see a pattern and we want it out of our schools; also the stats tell us a mom and dad are best parents so we don't agree with gay adoption.
A compassionate society should discourage the deadly homosexual behavior but those of us who do get labeled homophobic. We're not the ones who hate homosexuals, its the ones who don't discourage the deadly behavior that appear to hate homosexuals. A friend is someone who won't always tell you what you want to hear.