[Zevonismymuse]

From personal experience, I agree

Ironic how those who are the most abusive as a group claim to be the most victimized as a group. And they get away with it.

[Labyrinthos]

Sometimes it seems that way, but I'm not sure that my mother "got away with it," because neither my sister nor I have anything to do with her, which means that once my father dies, she will spend the rest of her days alone, without family or friends.