[Qwerty]

"Being black is the exact equivalent to being a pervert."

Well to me it is (if you substitute "homosexual" for the pervert part), since I believe I was born homosexual.

[Publius6961]

Well to me it is (if you substitute "homosexual" for the pervert part), since I believe I was born homosexual.

Congratulations!
I think you have just invented the "Hannibal Lecter" defense.

"...since I believe..." has such a final, elegant simplicity.

[=Intervention=]

Exactly. You "believe" you were born that way -- you have no evidence. Case closed.

[Paloma_55]

Poor Girl

You are confused!
What you are experiencing is a loss of paternal identification at a very early age. Sometime when you were very small, you were unable to look up to a father figure with a sense of adoration and desire for his attention. Either he wasn't there, he didn't care, or your mother stepped between you.

You were NOT born that way

Now, you can choose to remain where you are, or you can take the steps that are necessary to realize a fulfilling life.
Sure! you say... fulfilling!! "As if my life isn't fulfilling as a lesbian!..heh heh..er..umm...

Sorry girl. I know a number of lesbians and NONE of them know fulfillment. They try to convince themselves, but they are missing something. No.. not a man. A fulfilling relationship with a man. They can't have today what they couldn't have when they were a little girl. A fulfilling relationship with a man. So they reject it!

The APA did you a big disservice when they let your predecessors take homosexuality off the list. Rather than treating you, they now allow you to live in a world that is never going to reach fulfillment. They have left you in a guilded cage that seems shiny today... but later you will realize there was a huge, wonderful world that you could have had.

I hope that some day you open your eyes and step out of that cage.