Disagree. I'm not black but I'm a white lesbian.
"I'm really curious. How much do you really know about the homosexual lifestyle?"
A lot. It's pretty average.
"To defend a choice in the abstract and then say the choice is the same thing as being born a color or a race is quite untrue."
Says you.
"Even if you argue that homosexuals are born that way, there is plenty of evidence that they can and DO change."
Yes. Evidence put forth by reparative therapists (they make their money doing it) and religious organizations (they truly want to believe gays can change through Jesus). Even so, their "success" rate is minimal, and there have been plenty of scandals where the reformed poster boy goes off and gets caught at a gay bar, or with another man...
Same old story, every day...