[okiesap]

For better or worse, sexual compatability is a huge part of the equation. Likeminded politics are a bonus.

[1stFreedom]

If sexual compatibility is the equation then you are in a world of hurt.

What happens if the male becomes dysfunctional and CAN'T use viagra?

What if the female has a hysterectomy and her sex drive is seriously diminished? What if one of you becomes a paraplegeic?

What if the woman gets seriously ill and can't have sex and can't please the male due to sickness?

Sex is not the center of the world nor the center of marriage. It is an integral part, but not an overriding part. After all, God made you sexually compatible from the start. If you want something more than this, then maybe you want more then God has given.