[Hildy]

No, the burden of proof is not on the family, because they've already stated their reasons. You're saying it's something other than what they're saying, so the burden is on you. Of course, if you'd rather just call me names than defend your position, that's fine.

[Use It Or Lose It]

Of course, if you'd rather just call me names than defend your position, that's fine.

Funny that you didn't post my original quote just as I posted yours. It was you who called me a moron. I was simply completing what appears to be a lovely name.