If you're going to mention another poster's name, have the courtesy to ping that poster. Also....I was on that thread that night, so stop playing the victim. You know exactly what happened. And you know exactly what YOU did....which was a breach of forum rules.
And as far as someone calling you by another name, I could have called you Gertrude, would your feelings still have been 'hurt'? You term THAT hurtful? IMO, it had NOTHING to do with someone referring to you as someone other than jael. You know it, I know it, JR knows it, and God knows it.
Being a Drama Queen is unbecoming at your age.