Nope, you have never gotten it and you never will, you have too much invested in your ideology.
Just because you make declarative statements that the initiation of force and/or fraud are moral absolutes doesn't make them so.
If OWDK pops up and says the prime directive is the continuance of his gene pool and that murder and fraud to that end are good things and absolutely moral because they further the prime objective, you haven't a leg to stand on.
It's his claim to moral absolutes vs yours.
(sheesh)