I think, maybe, you and I are arguing FOR the same thing. We both saw women scam the system, and we were both disgusted. We can't have equality because we are not "equal." IF we were truly EQUAL, you could have babies, and I could pee on a wall. :)
And women don't smell as sexy as men.
Well I've seen my wife have both of our babies and I can assure you that I would sign up for combat duty in a heartbeat before going through that myself! (And peeing on a tree is a convenience I wouldn't want to give up.)