[fawn796]

I have a 16-year-old daughter. She knows the dangers of alcohol and driving or getting in a car with someone who was drinking. She knows how to say no when offered alcohol. They adults are responsible for serving alcohol to underage children, but the 16 year old also had some responsibility here - no one made her drink it. Sorry, but don't think there is a 16-year-old anywhere who hasn't heard of the consequences of drinking in school or on TV!
(I am sure I will get flamed for this).

[MEGoody]

"They adults are responsible for serving alcohol to underage children, but the 16 year old also had some responsibility here."

Absolutely.