You on a municipal line for water or power? Likelihood very good government money helped build those faclities.
You see something that helps quality of life. I see tax dollars taken and spent wastefully for something that private industry could do better (an example is Atlanta - a corrupt African People's Democracy if ever there was one) Even in Atlanta privatization of the water system is saving $8,000,000 a year.
Another example - you say
The fact you can buy private property and be reasonably sure that it won't be taken away by some schyster with a fake deed is because of government
You see protection of private property. I see the property tax system that ensures that if you don't pay an annual bribe to the county/state your property will be taken away by some schyster with a real deed. And so it goes.
I don't think I will ever convince you, and I know you won't convince me.
A prosperous nation that wishes to be protected from aggression MUST advance the technology of warfare, or be vulnerable to injury and conquest.
And, as to public works projects, if the government has to build it, most likely not everyone wants it. In a free society, there is no obsticle to prevent those who will benefit from this or that project, from likewise funding it. (To believe that no visionaries could exist outside of government is vile hubris. If there is profit in a thing, it will be accomplished.) Successfully lobbying government to become the financier of such things increases the benefit to the developers unnaturally, and forces all to pay for the wealth and convenience of some. (If a group wishes a road to be built, they must pay market value for the right-of-way; the government can "take" it) The folks who could do without are forced to pay for them that have want. That ain't right.
I think there is some discrimination required in the screed...both ways; key words: necessary, proper.