What about the nesting instinct? Has no one thought that the man may have an unconscious desire to mate and live with a nesting female? Career women with employment drive are not generally as well suited to applying that drive within the less flashy 'home and hearth' context. The above posts read like women think men are beauty driven, or 'find me a dumb one I can dominate' driven. They might be unconsciously driven by 'find one that wants to share a nest and nestlings' driven. Looks are only one piece of the pie of contentment. Men want to nest, also. It's in their developmental and recent past ... a bot grows to his teens within the relationship to a woman maintaining a nest, nesting in one form or another. Denesting breeds more denested.
['Pawsing' now to hike up my asbestos coverings ... I'm a Leo, my paws have claws.]
Are you kidding?
You are preaching to the choir!
No feminist here! In fact feminism is a huge factor in divorce.
Women trying to be men and abdicating their nesting
and materal instincts in favor of a "career."
I am lamenting the shortage of strong men who aren't afraid of a strong but feminine woman.
Hey you know if you say it enough times it sounds real weird... ehehehe [/Butthead]
Folks think too durn hard about all this stuff. One of my buds said once well, you just got to find somebody who'll put up with yer sh!t. He was right.