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I don't know. Maybe it's a time for tough love. She's driven by the fear that she'll lose her boyfriend (and she probably will anyway, before long).

Maybe someone should convey a little fear of the Lord to her, about this. Something along the lines of: What is it about "Do not murder." that you don't understand?

(Not being judgmental, just looking to see if there's a chance to make a difference.)

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After reflecting on that, I'd have to adjust it, to strike "I don't know."

Whomever it is, this girl or any other, if she's lost track of the facts, facing her up to the facts is by far the most gracious and kind thing to do. Certainly such a thing can be refused by loving parents/guardians, with the consequences being very serious.

"Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses."
(Proverbs 27:6)

"A man [or woman] who remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed -- without remedy.
(Proverbs 29:1)