Lest others think we set this up on the side, I hereby make clear you did not dictate my answer..:)))
The answer is simple, and obvious.
REDUCE OUR TAXES, Big Bro and Big State Govs - - then we Little Wimmin could afford to stay by the hearth if we choose, or at least juggle part time work if that is our interest.
That would help to reduce tensions all around and benefit Family Life - especially for the children.
Of course in an Ideal World, that is so; however, The Family often is absent a husband and father.
But I digress, having valiantly supported your tax reform subject.