[bonfire]

We might be surprised how many people are like that when the wife is pregnant. Many husbands and wives feel uncomfortable with sexuality during pregnancy, and a fling with a sleazebag on the side is seen by the wife as a non-threatening way to attend to the husband's "needs" temporarily.


Your statement accepts the fact that Laci thought it was OK for Scott to have an affair because MANY people feel that way. Do you know MANY people in that situation? And YES, I do go by my experiences. I am middle aged, wasn't born in a barn, didn't wake up yesterday and I don't know of ANY woman in my experience that thinks it's "OK". You are shoveling out broad based statements.

[alexandria]

We might be surprised how many people are like that when the wife is pregnant. Many husbands and wives feel uncomfortable with sexuality during pregnancy, and a fling with a sleazebag on the side is seen by the wife as a non-threatening way to attend to the husband's "needs" temporarily.

The words IN BOLD I belive are being missed here. Also SP said that he could NOT say that Laci was OK with it but that it was not something that was going to split them up.

Your statement accepts the fact that Laci thought it was OK for Scott to have an affair because MANY people feel that way.

He suggested "we might be surprised how many people are like that ..." and you change that to his (factually) stating that MANY people FEEL that way?