[Yeti]

I in no way was condoning men who stray when their wives are pregnant, only addressing the issue that there's a possibility that this could have been going on here.

I am gonna quit defending myself on that one, too. There was nothing in the original post, or anywhere on this thread, where you or I or anyone indicated that was a proper thing to do -- just that it could have been going on.

I don't understand why *some people* think that just because a pregnant woman gains weight, a man can punch her in the stomach and call her fat. Maybe in some people's world it's okay like that, but I take a dim view of it and I can't help but *cringe* when women advocate that kind of brutality against women. What a horrible person.

[spectre]

OMG, what are you saying I said?

Say it again, and explain yourself. Make it good.

[Velveeta]

What??? I haven't seen *anyone* here advocate brutality against women, ever.