[BonneBlue]

Early December, heh? He had to say early December. He needs to get away, as far as possible, from Dec 23rd, so her disappearance in no way, has anything to do with him! The way he speaks of it though, he almost is insinuating that she may have left on her own. He leaves to the imagination the possibility she may have needed some time alone or she decided she could not deal with the affair after all.

Let's go with the possibility that he actually did tell her in early December. She had almost 3 weeks to tell someone. She would not have kept this to herself for that length of time. She would have had to talk about it for the simple reason of getting another perspective on the situation. She would have least told a therapist or counselor if not her friends and family.

[blondee123]

Let's go with the possibility that he actually did tell her in early December. She had almost 3 weeks to tell someone

Don't know if this has been brought up & I have a hard time believing him & also his actions are not of a grieving man, but didn't her father ask him right after she disappeared, if he had a g/f? Why would her father think that, if they appeared to have such a wonderful marriage?