Either you haven't known any gay people ever or you are being dumb or misleading. And I don't know which. One of the friends of my family (Brother's best Friend's daughter) used to be lesbian. She always wanted a husband; but, kept a lesbian lifestyle. She made the choice to no longer be lesbian. Not by becoming christian. She just got up one day and realized how used and sleazy she felt and got away from it. She is now rather healthily married to a good man and has three children. And she wants nothing to do with lesbians or lesbianism.
what else did I miss in your hyper defensive rant?