As I said before, you can try to insult me all you want, it only makes me smile. You seem to be able to rant with the best of them.
By the way, if you think that calling me a 'little boy' bothers me in any way, you are sadly mistaken. I actually like it. :-)
Here is Mr. Wharf Rat, a man who doesn't need to marry because many women are willing to have sex with him sans marriage. He states clearly and honestly that he is NOT interested in a relationship, much less in marriage, but they don't believe him; they even think they can trick him into love, manipulate him into marriage. Pretty vain and self-delusional on their parts, but a frequent mistake. Women can fall in love because of great sex, but men rarely do. Some women don't understand this, so they think that if they just give him a great time he'll pop the question sooner or later. They should believe Mr. Wharf Rat because he is really being truthful with them.
A hundred and fifty years ago women didn't take this approach. Lacking access to "safe" abortions or to reliable birth control, to AFDC payments and social services, they wouldn't commonly part their legs without at least an engagement ring, and probably without a wedding ring. Many of them were quite religious and believed that sex outside of marriage was wrong, but whether they believed this or not, society as a whole certainly told them in no uncertain terms that bringing bastards into the world was very wrong. So Mr. Wharf Rat would not have been able to find clean, pleasant women to have sex with (or even to pass time with, as wasting a woman's time without at least the intention of offering her marriage was socially unacceptable, too). He would either have had to pay hookers or suffer the tortures of horniness. He would have a somewhat uncomfortable life in other ways, too, as single men back then didn't have a great lifestyle, and marriage would improve his standard of living substantially.
In all likelihood, Wharf Rat would eventually have met some sweet, strong, intelligent young woman who would refuse to put out for him, and he would fall in love with her calm, loving spirit. At last he would break down and beg her to make him the happiest man in the world by marrying him. And they might or might not live happily ever after, but they'd have kids and societal pressures would keep him from leaving her or the kids, and society would be the stronger for it.
Many years ago George Gilder wrote an excellent book called Sexual Suicide. His point was that marriage has a very beneficial civilizing effect on men but that stupid, weak women who put out for the price of a good dinner have wrecked things for all of us. I agree with him. I'm filled with horror and despair at all the bitterness and hostility you men feel toward us--a generalized hostility toward all women whether virtuous and loving or cold and vindictive. It is feminism that has brought us to this pass and has wrecked the happiness of endless millions.