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Memories of Growing Up in the 40's and 50's (and since, even)
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Posted on 01/04/2003 12:12:42 PM PST by Dakotabound

"Hey Dad," My Son asked the other day, "what was your favorite fast food when you were growing up?"

"We didn't have fast food when I was growing up."

"C'mon, seriously. Where did you eat?"

"We ate at home," I explained. "Your Grandma cooked every day and when your Grandpa got home from work, we all sat down together at the table, and if I didn't like what she put on my plate I had to sit there until I did like it." By this time, my Son was laughing so hard I was afraid he was going to suffer some serious internal damage, so I didn't tell him the part about how I had to get my Father's permission to leave the table.

Here are some other things I would have told him about my childhood if I had figured his system could handle it.

My parents never: wore Levi's, set foot on a golf course, traveled out of the country, flew in a plane or had a credit card. In their later years they had something called a "revolving charge card" but they never actually used it. It was only good at Sears-Roebuck. Or maybe it was Sears and Roebuck. Either way, there is no Roebuck anymore.

My parents never drove me to soccer practice. This was because soccer back then was just for the girls. We actually did walk to school. By the time you were in the 6th grade it was not cool to ride the bus unless you lived more than 4 or 5 miles from the school, even when it was raining or there was ice or snow on the ground.

Outdoor sports consisted of stickball, snowball fights, building forts, making snowmen and sliding down hills on a piece of cardboard. No skate boards, roller blades or trail bikes.

We didn't have a television in our house until I was 12. It was, of course, black and white, but you could buy a piece of special colored plastic to cover the screen. The top third was blue, like the sky, and the bottom third was green, like grass. The middle third was red. It was perfect for programs that had scenes of fire trucks riding across someone's lawn on a sunny day.

I was 13 before I tasted my first pizza. It was a Sam's Pizza at the East end of Fruit Street in Milford. My friend, Steve took me there to try what he called "pizza pie." When I bit into it, I burned the roof of my mouth and the cheese slid off, swung down and plastered itself against my chin. It's still the best pizza I ever had.

Pizzas were not delivered to your house back then, but the milk was. I looked forward to winter because the cream in the milk was on top of the bottle and it would freeze and push the cap off. Of course us kids would get up first to get the milk and eat the frozen cream before our mother could catch us.

I never had a telephone in my room. Actually the only phone in the house was in the hallway and it was on a party line. Before you could make a call, you had to listen in to make sure someone else wasn't already using the line. If the line was not in use an Operator would come on and ask "number please" and you would give her the number you wanted to call.

There was no such thing as a computer or a hand held calculator. We were required to memorize the "times tables." Believe it or not, we were tested each week on our ability to perform mathematics with nothing but a pencil and paper. We took a spelling test every day. There was no such thing as a "social promotion." If you flunked a class, you repeated that grade the following year. Nobody was concerned about your "self esteem." We had to actually do something praiseworthy before we were praised. We learned that you had to earn respect.

All newspapers were delivered by boys and most all boys delivered newspapers. I delivered the "Milford Daily News" six days a week. It cost 7 cents a paper, of which I got to keep 2 cents. On Saturday, I had to collect the 42 cents from my customers. My favorite customers were the ones who gave me 50 cents and told me to keep the change. My least favorite customers were the ones who seemed to never be home on collection day.

Movie stars kissed with their mouths shut on screen. Touching someone else's tongue with yours was called French kissing and they just didn't do that in the movies back then. I had no idea what they did in French movies. French movies were considered dirty and we weren't allowed to see them.

You never saw the Lone Ranger, Roy Rogers or anyone else actual kill someone. The heroes back then would just shoot the gun out of the bad guys hand. There was no blood and violence.

When you were sick, the Doctor actually came to your house. No, I am not making this up. Drugs were something you purchased at a pharmacy in order to cure an illness.

If we dared to "sass" our parents, or any other grown-up, we immediately found out what soap tasted like. For more serious infractions, we learned about something called a "this hurts me more than it hurts you." I never did quite understand that one?

In those days, parents were expected to discipline their kids. There was no interference from the government. "Social Services" or "Family Services" had not been invented (The ninth and tenth amendments to the constitution were still observed in those days.)

I must be getting old because I find myself reflecting back more and more and thinking I liked it a lot better back then. If you grew up in a generation before there was fast food, you may want to share some of these memories with your kids or grandchildren. Just don't blame me if they wet themselves laughing. Growing up today sure ain't what it used to be.


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To: Nea Wood; All
LOL, times sure have changed.

It's kind of strange talking about the good old days when I still feel so young (well most of the time I still feel young).

Does anyone remember a show called The 21st Century? I can remember watching the show and thinking I would be ancient by the time the 21st century was here.

401 posted on 01/04/2003 7:43:20 PM PST by muggs
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To: Redleg Duke
Lots of us now doin' the double nickle (9-9-47).
402 posted on 01/04/2003 7:44:30 PM PST by Mike Darancette
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To: texson66
"Plunk your majic twanger, Froggie"

Remember the Buster Brown show on TV in the 50's? Midnight, the cat, would say "Nnniiiccceee".

403 posted on 01/04/2003 7:44:38 PM PST by Atlantian
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To: Pintobean
I was born in 1948 but my grandmother lived with us which made it a more conservative home than some. We had a TV about the time I was 8 but I only got to watch on Sunday nights. I wasn't allowed to watch some shows because they were too violent. The Untouchables was one of those. As I became a teenager, the restrictions were loosened. I Spy was my favorite when I was in high school.

I went to parochial schools in the south.

I remember going to an art theater with my brother to watch "The Lord of the Flies." The preview featured two people kissing with tongues and other stuff. I was traumatized for days.

404 posted on 01/04/2003 7:47:48 PM PST by Mercat
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To: StormEye
I grew up in Bethesda, we used to ride our bike's down to this little store, a house actually, and get Cokes or ice cream. That's all gone now...last time I was there was over ten years ago and it was already unrecognizable.
405 posted on 01/04/2003 7:51:22 PM PST by visualops
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To: oyez
argh Chucky Cheese I hate that place lol
Been there a couple of time for birthday parties my kids went to- after that I told them never again...place was full of rude noisy brats.
406 posted on 01/04/2003 7:53:52 PM PST by visualops
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To: Dakotabound
From early last year right here on FR, six whole threads of memories:

CALLING ALL PRE-BOOMERS...LET'S REMINISCE !!! Thread VI

Enjoyable. Thanks. (If this has been linked already, I'm sorry. Just can't go through more than 400 posts right now to find out.

407 posted on 01/04/2003 8:08:55 PM PST by Max McGarrity
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To: WVNan
Remember the pain when those boll-points would run up under the cuticle of your fingers?

My mothers hands would be a bloody mess but she would go home and do every thing a mother and wife did in those days. Cotton picking sacks were sold in feet, 10,12, 16 and so forth. Some of them could hold near a hundred pounds. One of my first "real" jobs was flagging for a crop duster when DDT and the others were new. LOL

408 posted on 01/04/2003 8:09:23 PM PST by tubebender
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To: Dakotabound
My visiting aunt has been reading this thread and told me it brought to mind lines from a favorite poem of hers. "Turn back, turn back, oh time in your flight. Make me a child just for tonight". I can relate to that. Then it's on to a new day and new experiences.
409 posted on 01/04/2003 8:17:10 PM PST by dasein64
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To: don-o
Dick Biondi on WLS. Can I get a witness?

We used to listen to him nearly every night in Mississippi, atmospherics permitting. Some nights an over powered station in Cuba would flood him out.

410 posted on 01/04/2003 8:25:48 PM PST by oyez
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To: tubebender
Didn't anybody ever tell you that DDT will kill you?
411 posted on 01/04/2003 8:26:18 PM PST by WVNan
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To: Willie Green
Also wasnt Froggy & his magic twanger on BJ and Sparky?


Buster Brown Show. - Pluck your magic twanger Froggy.
412 posted on 01/04/2003 8:32:09 PM PST by Mike Darancette
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To: Dakotabound
Where to start?
My husband is a '47, I'm a '59. We once sat around with his siblings and their spouses for FOUR HOURS and traded stories about when we were kids and had near-death experiences our folks still don't know about. They're farm kids, and they have more than one story that starts, "..that time when you went up too high in the silo..." Still nothing but butter in ANY of our houses.

I started working at my dad's meat market at 15, no pay, but all the lunchmeat you wanted. Ever get full on headcheese? Me neither. There was still sawdust on the floor, before it got outlawed. We ate dinner in shifts because there was 10 of us, with the working men eating first, of course (I had 5 older brothers--hand-me-downs were interesting, too). We listened to my Dad talking politics every night, which is where I think I got my basic education. Stories about the Depression: lard sandwiches, and the "relief" in those days was the county wagon going around to the widows and dropping off bags of beans, etc.

No TV until Dad turned it on, and it was what he wanted to watch. Heaven help us if we tried to switch to either of the other 2 stations if he fell asleep during a ballgame.

Childhood--1st memory was getting to watch As The World Turns because I had the flu, and having it interrupted by the assasination news.

We only got to watch TV during the day if we were sick. Faves were Romper Room and Sherry Lewis/Lambchop. We weren't ever to let on outside the home (or Dad) that the TV went on during the day.

Dippity-Do, the precursor for styling gel. Springy rollers with the plastic picks, AND pincurls on the bangs AND "sideburns"--remember that? The curlier the better. My aunt got to wear false eyelashes because she was cool, and lived in the city. We couldn't wait to get out of ankle socks and into stockings, so we finally got to wear panty-girdles with garters. Painful when you wore fishnets! Mass EVERY morning, with a "veil" on our heads, held on with bobby pins. You got to wear pants under your dress only when it was snot-freezing cold, then you had to take them off as soon as you got into school.

We couldn't wear pants to school until high school, then no jeans until we were seniors or so. The bare-midriff-hip-hugger styles so popular today were only for the trashiest girls, and if it was too risque, you'd get sent home. In those days, girls would "have" to get married.

Kids these days, they don't know what it was like...I finally get to pass along this old gem...I guess I am getting old.






413 posted on 01/04/2003 8:33:52 PM PST by lorrainer
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To: Exit148
You were in Winthrop which was like a day trip for us,it was a real treat to go to your town.

Chinatown was great,I haven't been there in years because there are ethnic restaurants all over the suburbs now but it's not the same,is it?
414 posted on 01/04/2003 8:36:38 PM PST by Mears
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To: WVNan
Didn't anybody ever tell you that DDT will kill you?

I remember my dad bringing some home to put on the garden to kill the tomato horn worms. LOL.

415 posted on 01/04/2003 8:38:22 PM PST by tubebender
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To: tubebender
I remember my grandmother filling up the resevoir of the old time sprayers with the mosquito killing stuff. She cautioned me to get in bed under the covers and away she would go, spraying the room down really good.

Yes, I am sure that it must have been DDT. I wish they would legalize it again, really.
416 posted on 01/04/2003 8:45:58 PM PST by Conservababe
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To: hardhead
Glad to hear it. I've seen Amazon actually be cheaper than buying direct from the publisher. This is a different situation, obviously.
417 posted on 01/04/2003 9:02:12 PM PST by savedbygrace
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To: savedbygrace
Goodnight, it was great folks.

last one out the door (please) turn out the light..................

418 posted on 01/04/2003 9:25:04 PM PST by GrandMoM
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To: xJones
Little Joe did; if I remember right.
419 posted on 01/04/2003 9:27:15 PM PST by dsutah
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To: MatthewViti
A nice sentiment. Bless you.
420 posted on 01/04/2003 9:36:48 PM PST by BunnySlippers
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