Agreed.
I would be lying if I said I wasn't a little more on edge when streaking across the sky in a pressurized tube than pre-9/11, but I haven't stopped. That "edgyness" probably peaked for me on a return flight 9/10 this year, just after they bumped up the color code to off-fushia, burnt-tope, rusty-bicycle or whatever it was.
The fact is I have a life to live and a job to do. I always want to come home to my kids smiles and hugs, but how could I look them in the eye if I cowered in fear at every turn.
There's nothing more terrifying to a child than to see their "all powerful protectors" afraid.