[buccaneer81]

"He says that most men have no clue whatsoever that there is a problem..." I'm not buying that one either...

Believe it. Happened to me. She was having an affair for months. And still sleeping with me. No outward signs of trouble. Then one day she made her choice, snatched our four year old son and moved in with the BF. Happens every day. And the laws encourage it.

[BuddhaBoy]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Women can be INCREDIBLY effective liars when they want to be. No man can detect a secret if a woman wants to keep one.

Better off sampling the milk then buying the cow, because you can never tell when that cow is going to start offering up cheese to others.

[marajade]

There's always a clue... you just weren't ready to recognize it...